IF: Verify bls signature of vote while not holding a mutex

[heifner]

Since bls signature verification can take 6-8ms on ci/cd machines (~2ms on i7 or i9 12th gen), perform the verify while not holding a mutex. This reduces the contention on the pending_quorum_certificate mutex.

I believe we still need to do the verify off the net thread, but this is a simple improvement we can get in now.

This PR severely aggravated #2289, so added a fix for that issue.

Resolves #2289

[ericpassmore]

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group: IF
category: INTERNALS
summary: Reduce lock contention during BLS signature verification.
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