Upgrade the Windows SDK version that is used in WindowsAI Nuget Packa…

…ging pipeline (microsoft#19786)

### Description
1. Upgrade the version from 10.0.19041.0 to 10.0.22621.0. The old one
misses some macros that are needed by PyTorch's CPUINFO
2. Also update cmake.


### Motivation and Context
In PR microsoft#19655 I added CPUINFO to all Windows builds, but forgot to test
this pipeline.

.pipelines/windowsai-steps.yml

@@ -80,11 +80,11 @@ jobs:
 
     # must call vsdevcmd first to add cmake to PATH
     - script: |
-        curl -O -L https://github.com/Kitware/CMake/releases/download/v3.26.3/cmake-3.26.3-windows-x86_64.zip
-        7z x cmake-3.26.3-windows-x86_64.zip
+        curl -O -L https://github.com/Kitware/CMake/releases/download/v3.28.3/cmake-3.28.3-windows-x86_64.zip
+        7z x cmake-3.28.3-windows-x86_64.zip
         set PYTHONHOME=$(Build.BinariesDirectory)\${{ parameters.PythonPackageName }}.3.9.7\tools
         set PYTHONPATH=$(Build.BinariesDirectory)\${{ parameters.PythonPackageName }}.3.9.7\tools
-        $(Build.BinariesDirectory)\${{ parameters.PythonPackageName }}.3.9.7\tools\python.exe "$(Build.SourcesDirectory)\tools\ci_build\build.py" --build_dir $(Build.BinariesDirectory) --parallel --use_binskim_compliant_compile_flags --build_shared_lib --enable_onnx_tests --ms_experimental --use_dml --use_winml --cmake_generator "Visual Studio 17 2022" --update --config RelWithDebInfo --enable_lto --use_telemetry --disable_rtti --enable_wcos $(BuildFlags) --cmake_extra_defines "CMAKE_EXE_LINKER_FLAGS_RELWITHDEBINFO=/PROFILE" "CMAKE_SHARED_LINKER_FLAGS_RELWITHDEBINFO=/PROFILE" CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION=10.0.19041.0 --cmake_path $(Build.BinariesDirectory)\cmake-3.26.3-windows-x86_64\bin\cmake.exe --ctest_path $(Build.BinariesDirectory)\cmake-3.26.3-windows-x86_64\bin\ctest.exe
+        $(Build.BinariesDirectory)\${{ parameters.PythonPackageName }}.3.9.7\tools\python.exe "$(Build.SourcesDirectory)\tools\ci_build\build.py" --build_dir $(Build.BinariesDirectory) --parallel --use_binskim_compliant_compile_flags --build_shared_lib --enable_onnx_tests --ms_experimental --use_dml --use_winml --cmake_generator "Visual Studio 17 2022" --update --config RelWithDebInfo --enable_lto --use_telemetry --disable_rtti --enable_wcos --windows_sdk_version "10.0.22621.0" $(BuildFlags) --cmake_extra_defines "CMAKE_EXE_LINKER_FLAGS_RELWITHDEBINFO=/PROFILE" "CMAKE_SHARED_LINKER_FLAGS_RELWITHDEBINFO=/PROFILE"  --cmake_path $(Build.BinariesDirectory)\cmake-3.28.3-windows-x86_64\bin\cmake.exe --ctest_path $(Build.BinariesDirectory)\cmake-3.28.3-windows-x86_64\bin\ctest.exe
       workingDirectory: '$(Build.BinariesDirectory)'
       displayName: 'Generate cmake config'