[release-20.0] VReplication: Improve workflow cancel/delete (#15977)

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Description

This is a backport of #15977

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 45.05929% with 139 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 68.52%. Comparing base (f683028) to head (00f5009).
Report is 1 commits behind head on release-20.0.

Files	Patch %	Lines
go/vt/vtctl/workflow/switcher_dry_run.go	22.42%	83 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/vtctl/workflow/traffic_switcher.go	57.35%	29 Missing ⚠️
go/vt/vtctl/workflow/server.go	61.42%	27 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##           release-20.0   #16131      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage         68.20%   68.52%   +0.31%     
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  Files              1541     1541              
  Lines            197339   197479     +140     
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+ Hits             134601   135324     +723     
+ Misses            62738    62155     -583     

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