fix(node-18): revert changes to support node 18 again (#4935)

Revert some dependency upgrades to fix compatibility issues with node 18.

- Revert `tap-parser`, `glob`, `minimatch`, `rimraf`, `tap` dependency updates.
- Remove direct dependency on `glob` for `@stryker-mutator/core`, since we only needed `hasMagic` from it, and that is also exported from `minimatch` (which was already a dependency).
- Make pipeline fail when `"EBADENGINE"` errors occur to prevent these issues in the future.

.github/workflows/ci.yml

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ jobs:
         node-version: ${{ matrix.node-version }}
         cache: 'npm'
     - name: Install dependencies
-      run: npm ci || npm ci # retry once, install on windows is flaky...
+      run: npm ci --engine-strict
     - name: Build & lint & test
       run: npm run all