feat: parseNumbers support includes & excludes options

[daiwa233]

1. Added logic to return a string when the value exceeds the maximum safe JavaScript integer
2. Gives the user more flexibility to customize what to parse or not to parse when setting up parseNumbers.

[sindresorhus]

This feels too limiting. I would prefer a filter method that receives the key and value and returns true whether it should be parsed as a number. But the ideal solution would be something like #210

[daiwa233]

Got it. I'll look at #249 remaining unfinished parts

[sindresorhus]

If you decide to work no #249, I would recommend posting a proposal on what to do in #249 before writing any code to make sure it's the most optimal solution.