Add force send parameter to setOnOffValue and send it on matter start #91751

Job	Run time
Build framework (macos-release-availability, -sdk macosx -configuration Release OTHER_CFLAGS='$...	14m 25s
Build framework (ios-release, -sdk iphoneos -configuration Release OTHER_CFLAGS='${inherited} -We...	17m 47s
Build framework (ios-debug, -sdk iphoneos -configuration Debug OTHER_CFLAGS='${inherited} -Werr...	13m 59s
Run framework tests (asan, -enableAddressSanitizer YES -enableUndefinedBehaviorSanitizer YES)	8m 28s
Build framework (tvos-debug, -sdk appletvos -configuration Debug OTHER_CFLAGS='${inherited} -Wer...	17m 14s
Build TV Casting Bridge example	21m 6s
Run framework tests (asan-global-storage, -enableAddressSanitizer YES -enableUndefinedBehaviorSan...	7m 33s
Build framework (watchos-debug, -sdk watchos -configuration Debug OTHER_CFLAGS='${inherited} -...	16m 35s
Run framework tests (tsan, -enableThreadSanitizer YES)	6m 38s
Build Darwin	0s
	2h 3m 45s

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