dns: stop using deprecated ares_query

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Ref: #52464

ares_query has been deprecated in favor of ares_query_dnsrec, so this PR switches our implementation to use it.

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Review requested:

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/63165/

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 66.66667% with 7 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 88.40%. Comparing base (fa8f149) to head (de2f7ff).
Report is 9 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/cares_wrap.cc	41.66%	7 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   88.41%   88.40%   -0.02%     
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  Files         652      653       +1     
  Lines      186918   187603     +685     
  Branches    36072    36118      +46     
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+ Hits       165270   165856     +586     
- Misses      14891    14970      +79     
- Partials     6757     6777      +20     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/cares_wrap.h	79.89% <100.00%> (+2.18%)	⬆️
src/cares_wrap.cc	65.16% <41.66%> (ø)

... and 106 files with indirect coverage changes