build: conditionally compile bundled sqlite

Only compile the bundled sqlite in `deps/sqlite` if Node.js was not
configured with `--shared-sqlite`.

`node.gypi` is already correctly adding the sqlite dependency if
`node_shared_sqlite=="false"` so the uncoditional entries in `node.gyp`
are not necessary.

node.gyp

@@ -849,7 +849,6 @@
  'dependencies': [
  'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest_prod',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  'deps/simdjson/simdjson.gyp:simdjson',
  'deps/simdutf/simdutf.gyp:simdutf',
  'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
@@ -1038,7 +1037,6 @@
  'dependencies': [
  '<(node_lib_target_name)',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  ],
 
  'includes': [
@@ -1050,7 +1048,6 @@
  'deps/v8/include',
  'deps/cares/include',
  'deps/uv/include',
- 'deps/sqlite',
  'test/cctest',
  ],
 
@@ -1083,7 +1080,6 @@
  'dependencies': [
  '<(node_lib_target_name)',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  'deps/uvwasi/uvwasi.gyp:uvwasi',
  ],
  'includes': [
@@ -1094,7 +1090,6 @@
  'tools/msvs/genfiles',
  'deps/v8/include',
  'deps/cares/include',
- 'deps/sqlite',
  'deps/uv/include',
  'deps/uvwasi/include',
  'test/cctest',
@@ -1129,7 +1124,6 @@
  '<(node_lib_target_name)',
  'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest_prod',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  'deps/uvwasi/uvwasi.gyp:uvwasi',
  'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
  'deps/nbytes/nbytes.gyp:nbytes',
@@ -1142,7 +1136,6 @@
  'tools/msvs/genfiles',
  'deps/v8/include',
  'deps/cares/include',
- 'deps/sqlite',
  'deps/uv/include',
  'deps/uvwasi/include',
  'test/cctest',
@@ -1179,7 +1172,6 @@
  'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest',
  'deps/googletest/googletest.gyp:gtest_main',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  'deps/simdjson/simdjson.gyp:simdjson',
  'deps/simdutf/simdutf.gyp:simdutf',
  'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
@@ -1196,7 +1188,6 @@
  'deps/v8/include',
  'deps/cares/include',
  'deps/uv/include',
- 'deps/sqlite',
  'test/cctest',
  ],
 
@@ -1261,7 +1252,6 @@
  'dependencies': [
  '<(node_lib_target_name)',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
  'deps/nbytes/nbytes.gyp:nbytes',
  ],
@@ -1277,7 +1267,6 @@
  'deps/v8/include',
  'deps/cares/include',
  'deps/uv/include',
- 'deps/sqlite',
  'test/embedding',
  ],
 
@@ -1377,7 +1366,6 @@
  'dependencies': [
  '<(node_lib_target_name)',
  'deps/histogram/histogram.gyp:histogram',
- 'deps/sqlite/sqlite.gyp:sqlite',
  'deps/ada/ada.gyp:ada',
  'deps/nbytes/nbytes.gyp:nbytes',
  'deps/simdjson/simdjson.gyp:simdjson',
@@ -1394,7 +1382,6 @@
  'deps/v8/include',
  'deps/cares/include',
  'deps/uv/include',
- 'deps/sqlite',
  ],
 
  'defines': [ 'NODE_WANT_INTERNALS=1' ],