sdxl bug-fix: scaled_dot_product_attention api dtype

[Fzilan]

What does this PR do?

fix scaled_dot_product_attention api dtype bug, or "TypeError: for primitive [BatchMatMul] input type must be same" if configure decoder_attn_dtype=fp16 in first_stage_config.

# sdxl infer with yaml:
    first_stage_config:
      target: gm.models.autoencoder.AutoencoderKLInferenceWrapper
      params:
          ...
          decoder_attn_dtype: fp16

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