check rotary_embedding with seq length (#20547)

### Description
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with past/present shared same buffer, the present seq length is
different with total sequence length. The size of cos/sin cache should
be checked with sequence length.


### Motivation and Context
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- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->

onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cpu/bert/group_query_attention_helper.h

@@ -192,13 +192,13 @@ Status CheckInputs(const Tensor* query,
                              "head_size shall be a multiple of 16. Got head_size % 16 == ",
                              head_size % 16);
     }
-    if (cos_dims[0] < present_sequence_length) {
+    if (cos_dims[0] < total_sequence_length) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,
-                             "cos_cache dimension 0 should be of max_sequence_length.");
+                             "cos_cache dimension 0 should be not be less than total_sequence_length.");
     }
-    if (sin_dims[0] < present_sequence_length) {
+    if (sin_dims[0] < total_sequence_length) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,
-                             "sin_cache dimension 0 should be of max_sequence_length.");
+                             "sin_cache dimension 0 should be not be less than total_sequence_length.");
     }
     if (cos_dims[1] > (head_size / 16) * 8 || cos_dims[1] % 8 != 0) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,

onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/bert/group_query_attention_helper.h

@@ -215,13 +215,13 @@ Status CheckInputs(const Tensor* query,
                              "head_size shall be a multiple of 16. Got head_size % 16 == ",
                              head_size % 16);
     }
-    if (cos_dims[0] < present_sequence_length) {
+    if (cos_dims[0] < total_sequence_length) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,
-                             "cos_cache dimension 0 should be of max_sequence_length.");
+                             "cos_cache dimension 0 should be not be less than total_sequence_length.");
     }
-    if (sin_dims[0] < present_sequence_length) {
+    if (sin_dims[0] < total_sequence_length) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,
-                             "sin_cache dimension 0 should be of max_sequence_length.");
+                             "sin_cache dimension 0 should be not be less than total_sequence_length.");
     }
     if (cos_dims[1] > (head_size / 16) * 8 || cos_dims[1] % 8 != 0) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,