Fix SparseAttention cos/sin cache dimension checks (#20609)

### Description
This PR fixes the dimension checks for the cos/sin caches used in the
rotary embeddings in the `SparseAttention` operator.

### Motivation and Context
This PR ports over the same changes from [this
PR](#20547) for
`GroupQueryAttention`.

onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/sparse/sparse_attention_helper.h

@@ -202,13 +202,13 @@ Status CheckInputs(void* params,
                              "head_size shall be a multiple of 16. Got head_size = ",
                              head_size);
     }
-    if (cos_dims[0] < max_sequence_length) {
+    if (cos_dims[0] < total_sequence_length) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,
-                             "cos_cache dimension 0 should be of max_sequence_length.");
+                             "cos_cache dimension 0 should be not be less than total_sequence_length.");
     }
-    if (sin_dims[0] < max_sequence_length) {
+    if (sin_dims[0] < total_sequence_length) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,
-                             "sin_cache dimension 0 should be of max_sequence_length.");
+                             "sin_cache dimension 0 should be not be less than total_sequence_length.");
     }
     if (cos_dims[1] > (head_size / 16) * 8 || cos_dims[1] % 8 != 0) {
       return ORT_MAKE_STATUS(ONNXRUNTIME, INVALID_ARGUMENT,