bitswap(client/messageque): expose donthavetimeout config

[Wondertan]

Closes #701

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 86.66667% with 6 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 60.33%. Comparing base (392493d) to head (d04bd72).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
bitswap/client/client.go	20.00%	4 Missing ⚠️
...client/internal/messagequeue/donthavetimeoutmgr.go	94.44%	1 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main     #703      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   60.35%   60.33%   -0.03%     
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  Files         243      243              
  Lines       31038    31051      +13     
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  Hits        18734    18734              
- Misses      10637    10648      +11     
- Partials     1667     1669       +2     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
...tswap/client/internal/messagequeue/messagequeue.go	83.53% <100.00%> (-1.39%)	⬇️
...client/internal/messagequeue/donthavetimeoutmgr.go	95.39% <94.44%> (+2.12%)	⬆️
bitswap/client/client.go	86.74% <20.00%> (-1.34%)	⬇️

... and 8 files with indirect coverage changes