Update workflows and requirements (#239) #1027

Job	Run time
linux-gallery-python3.9-minimum	44s
linux-gallery-python3.13-optional	58s
windows-gallery-python3.13-optional	2m 20s
windows-gallery-python3.9-minimum	1m 37s
linux-python3.13	2m 34s
linux-python3.13-optional	4m 10s
linux-python3.9-minimum	2m 26s
macos-python3.13	1m 31s
macos-python3.13-optional	4m 38s
macos-python3.9-minimum	2m 54s
windows-python3.13	4m 30s
windows-python3.13-optional	6m 2s
windows-python3.9-minimum	3m 30s
conda-linux-python3.13	2m 39s
conda-linux-python3.13-optional	3m 52s
conda-linux-python3.9-minimum	2m 45s
Deploy pre-release from dev	47s
	47m 57s

Provide feedback