Update workflows and requirements #1019

Job	Run time
linux-gallery-python3.13-optional	56s
linux-gallery-python3.9-minimum	44s
windows-gallery-python3.13-optional	2m 49s
windows-gallery-python3.9-minimum	1m 21s
linux-python3.13	2m 35s
linux-python3.9-minimum	2m 22s
macos-python3.13	1m 45s
macos-python3.9-minimum	2m 50s
windows-python3.13	4m 28s
windows-python3.9-minimum	3m 57s
conda-linux-python3.13	2m 40s
conda-linux-python3.9-minimum	2m 39s
Deploy pre-release from dev	0s
	29m 6s

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