Update workflows and requirements #1017

Job	Run time
linux-gallery-python3.13-upgraded	1m 14s
linux-gallery-python3.9-minimum	56s
windows-gallery-python3.13-upgraded	2m 58s
windows-gallery-python3.9-minimum	1m 41s
linux-python3.13	2m 41s
linux-python3.13-upgraded	5m 56s
linux-python3.9-minimum	2m 25s
macos-python3.13-upgraded	3m 59s
macos-python3.9-minimum	3m 50s
windows-python3.13-upgraded	5m 19s
windows-python3.9-minimum	3m 25s
conda-linux-python3.13-upgraded	5m 10s
conda-linux-python3.9-minimum	2m 38s
Deploy pre-release from dev	0s
	42m 12s

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