[8.16](backport #4644) cleanup(apm): remove old rum deprecations

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Description

deprecated rum config options have been removed in 8.0 so they no longer apply.
remove the deprecated options from docs

Documentation sets edited in this PR

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• Stateful (docs/en/observability/*)
• Serverless (docs/en/serverless/*)
• Integrations Developer Guide (docs/en/integrations/*)
• None of the above

Related issue

Closes elastic/apm-server#14126

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• This PR does not need to be ported to another doc set because:
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