ci: support no secrets for dependabot

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What does this PR do?

Exclude dependabot from running the JBoss specific CI thing.
Retry if failures when pulling docker images - to add more resilience.

dependabot does not allow the use of secrets if those secrets are not defined in the dependabot secret section in GitHub. See dependabot/dependabot-core#3253

Checklist

• This is an enhancement of existing features, or a new feature in existing plugins
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• This is a new plugin
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