fix specifying path to SuiteSparse header files and libraries in numpy, Trilinos, PETSc easyblocks

[appolloford]

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PR #3004 changed the install path of suitesparse. Some easyblocks were not updated and caused problems mentioned in #3051. I can find suitesparse appears in numpy.py, trilinos.py, dolfin.py, elsi.py, petsc.py. It looks that the corresponding easyconfigs of dolfin and elsi have not been updated for years. I update only numpy.py, trilinos.py, petsc.py in this PR.

edit (by @boegel): fixes #3051

[boegel]

Test report by @boegel

Overview of tested easyconfigs (in order)

• SUCCESS SuperLU_DIST-8.1.0-foss-2022a.eb
• SUCCESS MATIO-1.5.23-GCCcore-11.3.0.eb
• SUCCESS PETSc-3.17.4-foss-2022a.eb
• SUCCESS GLM-0.9.9.8-GCCcore-11.3.0.eb
• SUCCESS Trilinos-13.4.1-foss-2022a.eb

Build succeeded for 5 out of 5 (2 easyconfigs in total)
node3123.skitty.os - Linux RHEL 8.8, x86_64, Intel(R) Xeon(R) Gold 6140 CPU @ 2.30GHz (skylake_avx512), Python 3.6.8
See https://gist.github.com/boegel/983948f6c8d319f46abd9d5b453b7386 for a full test report.

edit: this was on top of an existing SuiteSparse installation that was using old directory structure (so not using #3004)

[boegel]

SciPy-bundle easyconfigs don't include SuiteSparse dependency, so I'll skip the test for numpy easyblock (but I did review the proposed changes in detail, should work fine when SuiteSparse is used as dependency for numpy)

[boegel]

lgtm

[boegel]

Test report by @boegel

Overview of tested easyconfigs (in order)

• SUCCESS Trilinos-13.4.1-foss-2022a.eb

Build succeeded for 1 out of 1 (1 easyconfigs in total)
node3158.skitty.os - Linux RHEL 8.8, x86_64, Intel(R) Xeon(R) Gold 6140 CPU @ 2.30GHz (skylake_avx512), Python 3.6.8
See https://gist.github.com/boegel/721178ceec5d290e671d9e58a53311e0 for a full test report.

edit: tested on top of SuiteSparse that was installed with updated easyblock from #3004

[boegel]

Test report by @boegel

Overview of tested easyconfigs (in order)

• SUCCESS SuperLU_DIST-8.1.0-foss-2022a.eb
• SUCCESS PETSc-3.17.4-foss-2022a.eb

Build succeeded for 2 out of 2 (1 easyconfigs in total)
node3144.skitty.os - Linux RHEL 8.8, x86_64, Intel(R) Xeon(R) Gold 6140 CPU @ 2.30GHz (skylake_avx512), Python 3.6.8
See https://gist.github.com/boegel/e67f44f03517a7172ae571f9fd79571e for a full test report.

edit: tested on top of SuiteSparse that was installed with updated easyblock from #3004