Only Check includeEndStreamAction in response header when needed (#591)

* rename header from endStreamAction to includeEndStreamAction

* fix scalastyle

* fix variable name

* fix tests

* Only check includeEndStreamAction in response header when needed

* fix build

* fix tests

* Do not set includeEndStreamAction for getTableVersion/getTableMetadata

* moved condition

* rename includeEndStreamAction to endStreamActionEnabled

* put checkEndStreamAction in the right place

* fix tests

* use capabilitiesMap instead of capabilities

* fix a test error message

* revert numRetries