Refactor TLS 1.3 cipher selection and fix SSL_get_ciphers #5317

Job	Run time
bind9	5m 18s
Cyrus-SASL	1m 24s
grpc	11m 10s
nmap	2m 13s
OpenLDAP	11m 23s
Python main	4m 13s
Python releases (FIPS=0 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=0)	11m 22s
socat	6m 24s
Python releases (FIPS=1 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=0)	11m 22s
Python releases (FIPS=0 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=1)	11m 22s
Python releases (FIPS=1 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=1)	11m 21s
tcpdump	2m 3s
tpm2-tss	3m 55s
amazon-corretto-crypto-provider	11m 23s
libevent	11m 21s
openvpn2-6	3m 59s
openvpnMaster	5m 33s
Ruby releases (FIPS=0)	9m 14s
Ruby releases (FIPS=1)	9m 20s
strongswan	2m 1s
	2h 26m 21s

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