Refactor TLS 1.3 cipher selection and fix SSL_get_ciphers #5160

Job	Run time
grpc	11m 3s
tpm2-tss	4m 9s
socat	5m 2s
tcpdump	2m 15s
bind9	5m 5s
Cyrus-SASL	1m 20s
nmap	2m 23s
OpenLDAP	11m 11s
Python main	4m 4s
Python releases (FIPS=0 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=0)	11m 12s
Python releases (FIPS=1 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=0)	11m 10s
Python releases (FIPS=0 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=1)	11m 12s
Python releases (FIPS=1 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=1)	11m 11s
amazon-corretto-crypto-provider	11m 12s
libevent	11m 9s
openvpn2-6	3m 48s
openvpnMaster	4m 18s
Ruby releases (FIPS=0)	9m 20s
strongswan	1m 50s
Ruby releases (FIPS=1)	9m 27s
	2h 22m 21s

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