[FLINK-36533][runtime] Fix detecting bind failure in case of Netty EP… #1126

Job	Run time
Default (Java 11) / Compile	9m 14s
Pre-compile Checks / Basic QA	10m 31s
Default (Java 11) / Test packaging/licensing	35m 13s
Default (Java 11) / Test (module: core)	29m 16s
Default (Java 11) / E2E (group 1)	1h 38m 25s
Default (Java 11) / Test (module: python)	28m 45s
Default (Java 11) / E2E (group 2)	1h 45m 19s
Default (Java 11) / Test (module: table)	31m 3s
Default (Java 11) / Test (module: connect)	21m 19s
Default (Java 11) / Test (module: tests)	36m 28s
Default (Java 11) / Test (module: misc)	27m 16s
	7h 12m 49s

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