To get up and running, install vagrant and then:
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/farproc/CyanogenModBuildEnv.git
cd CyanogenModBuildEnv
vagrant up
This will create you a VM with all the required packages installed to build CyanogenMod for yourself.
I personally just follow the steps on http://wiki.cyanogenmod.org/ to build for my devices.
Another neat trick so save you faffing around with USB forwarding etc. is to run a ''adb'' server on your host and forward that (over TCP) though to the VM. Its actually pretty simple.
On the VM
adb kill-server # make sure the server isn't already running
Then on the host
adb devices # you should see your device
vagrant ssh -- -nNR127.0.0.1:5037:127.0.0.1:5037
Now back on the VM you should beable to exec ''adb'' commands :D