[Enhancement] add default hash function and dump query resource usage (backport #52080)

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Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #52080 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com). ## Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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Cherry-pick of 22a1f91 has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/branch-3.2/pr-52080
Your branch is up to date with 'origin/branch-3.2'.

You are currently cherry-picking commit 22a1f917f8.
  (fix conflicts and run "git cherry-pick --continue")
  (use "git cherry-pick --skip" to skip this patch)
  (use "git cherry-pick --abort" to cancel the cherry-pick operation)

Changes to be committed:
	modified:   be/src/column/column_hash.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/join_hash_map.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/exchange/exchange_sink_operator.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/exchange/sink_buffer.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/query_context.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/query_context.h
	modified:   be/src/runtime/data_stream_mgr.h
	modified:   be/src/runtime/local_pass_through_buffer.h
	modified:   be/src/runtime/sender_queue.h
	new file:   be/src/util/hash.h

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add/rm <file>..." as appropriate to mark resolution)
	deleted by us:   be/src/exprs/ngram.cpp

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@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr