fix: persons api performance

[aspicer]

Problem

A user has 150k distinct ids for a person and is unable to load that person page. This may or may not be causing issues with their insight filters on email address also. https://posthoghelp.zendesk.com/agent/tickets/15011

Changes

The performance issue we're seeing here is the same as one we saw in actors queries a few months ago: #22519

Update this code path to use that code also.

Does this work well for both Cloud and self-hosted?

Yes

How did you test this code?

Ran tests and verified that persons pages still loaded locally.

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Suspect Issues

This pull request was deployed and Sentry observed the following issues:

• ‼️ OperationalError: consuming input failed: query_wait_timeout /api/projects/{parent_lookup_team_id}/persons/ View Issue
• ‼️ OperationalError: consuming input failed: server closed the connection unexpectedly /api/projects/{parent_lookup_team_id}/persons/ View Issue

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