Adapt build to new cibuildwheel and other upstream changes (#314) #394

Job	Run time
sdist	4m 38s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/x86_64/cpython/many	20m 28s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/x86_64/cpython/musl	27m 41s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/arm64/cpython/many	2h 2m 42s
cibuildwheel ubuntu-22.04/arm64/cpython/musl	2h 45m 19s
cibuildwheel macos-13/x86_64/cpython/many	31m 37s
cibuildwheel macos-13/arm64/cpython/many	24m 55s
upload_all	0s
	6h 37m 20s

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