[build] avoid libedit linkage and align libccalllazy* SONAMEs (#55968)

While building the 1.11.0-rc4 in Homebrew[^1] in preparation for 1.11.0
release (and to confirm Sequoia successfully builds) I noticed some odd
linkage for our Linux builds, which included of:

1. LLVM libraries were linking to `libedit.so`, e.g.
    ```
    Dynamic Section:
      NEEDED       libedit.so.0
      NEEDED       libz.so.1
      NEEDED       libzstd.so.1
      NEEDED       libstdc++.so.6
      NEEDED       libm.so.6
      NEEDED       libgcc_s.so.1
      NEEDED       libc.so.6
      NEEDED       ld-linux-x86-64.so.2
      SONAME       libLLVM-16jl.so
    ```
    CMakeCache.txt showed
    ```
    //Use libedit if available.
    LLVM_ENABLE_LIBEDIT:BOOL=ON
    ```
Which might be overriding `HAVE_LIBEDIT` at
https://github.com/JuliaLang/llvm-project/blob/julia-release/16.x/llvm/cmake/config-ix.cmake#L222-L225.
So just added `LLVM_ENABLE_LIBEDIT`

2. Wasn't sure if there was a reason for this but `libccalllazy*` had
mismatched SONAME:
    ```console
    ❯ objdump -p lib/julia/libccalllazy* | rg '\.so'
    lib/julia/libccalllazybar.so:	file format elf64-x86-64
      NEEDED       ccalllazyfoo.so
      SONAME       ccalllazybar.so
    lib/julia/libccalllazyfoo.so:	file format elf64-x86-64
      SONAME       ccalllazyfoo.so
    ```
    Modifying this, but can drop if intentional.

---

[^1]: Homebrew/homebrew-core#192116

(cherry picked from commit 77c5875)

deps/llvm.mk

@@ -100,7 +100,7 @@ endif
 LLVM_CMAKE += -DLLVM_TOOLS_INSTALL_DIR=$(call rel_path,$(build_prefix),$(build_depsbindir))
 LLVM_CMAKE += -DLLVM_UTILS_INSTALL_DIR=$(call rel_path,$(build_prefix),$(build_depsbindir))
 LLVM_CMAKE += -DLLVM_INCLUDE_UTILS=ON -DLLVM_INSTALL_UTILS=ON
-LLVM_CMAKE += -DLLVM_BINDINGS_LIST="" -DLLVM_ENABLE_BINDINGS=OFF -DLLVM_INCLUDE_DOCS=Off -DLLVM_ENABLE_TERMINFO=Off -DHAVE_LIBEDIT=Off
+LLVM_CMAKE += -DLLVM_BINDINGS_LIST="" -DLLVM_ENABLE_BINDINGS=OFF -DLLVM_INCLUDE_DOCS=Off -DLLVM_ENABLE_TERMINFO=Off -DHAVE_LIBEDIT=Off -DLLVM_ENABLE_LIBEDIT=OFF
 ifeq ($(LLVM_ASSERTIONS), 1)
 LLVM_CMAKE += -DLLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS:BOOL=ON
 endif # LLVM_ASSERTIONS

src/Makefile

@@ -286,10 +286,10 @@ endif
 	$(INSTALL_NAME_CMD)libccalltest.$(SHLIB_EXT) $@
 
 $(build_shlibdir)/libccalllazyfoo.$(SHLIB_EXT): $(SRCDIR)/ccalllazyfoo.c
-	@$(call PRINT_CC, $(CC) $(JCFLAGS) $(JL_CFLAGS) $(JCPPFLAGS) $(FLAGS) -O3 $< $(fPIC) -shared -o $@ $(LDFLAGS) $(COMMON_LIBPATHS) $(call SONAME_FLAGS,ccalllazyfoo.$(SHLIB_EXT)))
+	@$(call PRINT_CC, $(CC) $(JCFLAGS) $(JL_CFLAGS) $(JCPPFLAGS) $(FLAGS) -O3 $< $(fPIC) -shared -o $@ $(LDFLAGS) $(COMMON_LIBPATHS) $(call SONAME_FLAGS,libccalllazyfoo.$(SHLIB_EXT)))
 
 $(build_shlibdir)/libccalllazybar.$(SHLIB_EXT): $(SRCDIR)/ccalllazybar.c $(build_shlibdir)/libccalllazyfoo.$(SHLIB_EXT)
-	@$(call PRINT_CC, $(CC) $(JCFLAGS) $(JL_CFLAGS) $(JCPPFLAGS) $(FLAGS) -O3 $< $(fPIC) -shared -o $@ $(LDFLAGS) $(COMMON_LIBPATHS) $(call SONAME_FLAGS,ccalllazybar.$(SHLIB_EXT)) -lccalllazyfoo)
+	@$(call PRINT_CC, $(CC) $(JCFLAGS) $(JL_CFLAGS) $(JCPPFLAGS) $(FLAGS) -O3 $< $(fPIC) -shared -o $@ $(LDFLAGS) $(COMMON_LIBPATHS) $(call SONAME_FLAGS,libccalllazybar.$(SHLIB_EXT)) -lccalllazyfoo)
 
 $(build_shlibdir)/libllvmcalltest.$(SHLIB_EXT): $(SRCDIR)/llvmcalltest.cpp $(LLVM_CONFIG_ABSOLUTE)
 	@$(call PRINT_CC, $(CXX) $(LLVM_CXXFLAGS) $(FLAGS) $(CPPFLAGS) $(CXXFLAGS) -O3 $< $(fPIC) -shared -o $@ $(LDFLAGS) $(COMMON_LIBPATHS) $(NO_WHOLE_ARCHIVE) $(CG_LLVMLINK)) -lpthread