ISW: Contextual warning on stream creation

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Description

closes #21101
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This PR adds a contextual warning on stream creation when:

• selecting the default index set
• selecting an index set already associated with another stream

Motivation and Context

How Has This Been Tested?

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Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Refactoring (non-breaking change)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.