fix: listing ref

[acpana]

Forgot to actually record the dataExchangeID in a parent for the listing reference. The dynamic post submit caught this but only in testDriftDetection for some reason.

$     go test -v -tags=integration ./pkg/controller/dynamic/ -timeout 1600s -test.count=1 -test.run 'TestCreateNoChangeUpdateDelete/bigqueryanalyticshub/basic-bigqueryanalyticshublisting-base'  2>&1 

...

testreconciler.go:187: reconcile for BigQueryDataset:67ynb4sojpz6wri/bigquerydataset67ynb4sojpz6wri took 493.033563ms, result was ({false 5m48.428911865s}, <nil>)
--- PASS: TestCreateNoChangeUpdateDelete (0.23s)
    --- PASS: TestCreateNoChangeUpdateDelete/bigqueryanalyticshub (0.00s)
        --- PASS: TestCreateNoChangeUpdateDelete/bigqueryanalyticshub/basic-bigqueryanalyticshublisting-base (83.60s)
PASS
...
ok      github.com/GoogleCloudPlatform/k8s-config-connector/pkg/controller/dynamic      93.940s

[google-oss-prow]

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