improve parameter grouping/fusing logic

[schmidt-ai]

This PR aims to improve how parameter groups are formed and fused. Specifically, the changes are:

• fuses param groups across all submodules of self.student
• adds names to each param group
• ensures groups are ordered deterministically

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