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1816. OK I had to get this off my chest...
I'm in 61b right now, and I love Hug. Great guy, super clear lecturer, very fair exams, well-structured class, etc.
But GOD DAMN why does he made that tongue-hitting-roof-of-mouth "CHUP" sound every five seconds in his lecture videos it drives me crazy. Pls stop.
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1815. I know that politics affects everyday life and that people are trying to stand up for what they think is right. However, our school is always so stigmatized by the media for political things instead of its educational value-- the name doesn't make you think "wow much intellectual," instead it's "monkas politics!!!" Often involving people who aren't UC Berkeley students. The majority of us, I think, are just nerdy memelords. Recently, I don't feel as proud saying I go to UC Berkeley because all people will ask me about is about violence/politics instead of our rigorous academics. I just wish people would stop generalizing everyone in our entire school with politics, even though our university is a hotspot. This comes from a place of privilege, I admit, I just... don't want my job applications outside CA to be looked at with a snide impression.
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1814. I just want to say that the grading rubric for the first Chem 4A midterm is hella fucked up. I got pretty much all my computations correct and included units in the beginning and final steps, but the rubric chooses to fuck you over just because you didn't rewrite the units you already wrote in every single intermediate step. This is one of the reasons why people hate the College of Chemistry. They try to dock you over really petty shit like units, when they should reall...
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Raymond Zhou “taking off two points for every request that disputes the rubric”
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1813. I swear the most intimate experiences I've ever had here at Berkeley are when I lock eyes with the proctoring TAs during midterms. So much sexual tension you can cut it with a knife.
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Christopher Vũ They just wish they were the ones fucking you instead of the exam 😩
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1812. I feel like I'm a pretty cheerful person and most of my friends probably don't know or realize the extent of the depression I've felt in my life but at nights like this its so fucking hard to keep going. I really fantasize a lot about returning to self harm but I don't want to have to explain to people what the marks are and it wouldn't be fair to the people wh ocare about me even if it would help in the moment. I just feel like I'm never fucking good enough. I really t...
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Zoe Yuxiao Zong Omg reading through your post is like reading through my diary... As someone who has been suffering from depression for years, I understand how it feels! I know it is really hard to make other people understand what you are going through. But hey, I ca…See More
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Jehan Yang I know almost exactly how that feels. Get some help! Professionals are good. Unfortunately most friends or SOs at Berkeley can't deal with all of their friends' stresses and mental health. Most people here have ambitions and so already their own big stressors.
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1811. My significant other saw porn open on one of my tabs while we were having sex. I’m so embarrassed right now
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1810. I was having a rough night tonight. Not even because of anything bad happening to me, I just felt down for no good reason. Regular loneliness I guess. I'm not really friends with my new roommate so I feel trapped when I go home. It's like I'm alone without the freedom of being alone.
Anyway, I missed my bus because I had to grab food, so I was just standing there at the stop, quietly singing to some music. I sit down on the 51B and across from me is some cute girl listening to something on her headphones. She really smiled at something she heard, and I don't know, it just really made me feel better somehow. I'll probably never see her again, but if she recognizes this post (it was like 9:30ish on a Thursday), I hope she knows she made my night.
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1809. so I just took a good look at sahai for the first time today and holy shit I think might be gay for him, he’s actually so hot and I literally can’t pay attention during ee lecture because I’m just fantasizing about him cuddling under the sheets with me while whispering sweet promises in his smooth sexy voice holy shit I might actually be gay wtf
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Ashwinee Panda William Song David Vendrow just "might" be gay for sahai? lmao amateurs
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1808. I’ve been stalking my CS70 TA like crazy. I’m sorry I just can’t stop and I don’t know what to do. After discussion section, I wait around and follow her to wherever she goes. I know where she lives, who some of her friends are, who her boyfriend is. I go to her OH without any questions, I just want to listen to her talk and explain and be super cute. She’s literally just so sweet and attractive I die in section every time. She’s major heart eyes and I can’t get enough of her, like I can’t believe someone can be so cute and smart at the same time. I stalk her on Facebook but she recently either blocked me or deleted it and I’m so sad because I can’t look at her pictures anymore :( I didn’t save any pictures so idk what to do.
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1807. My neighbor keeps hitting at the wall when my girlfriend and I fuck but this time threatened to come over if we don't quiet down. We're going to be even louder so pull up and swing first or get some earplugs broke ass bitch.
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1806. To the Asian dude who works on the chipotle on Telegraph, you are the real MVP. The Telegraph Chipotle is by far the shittiest Chipotle I have ever been to in terms of portions and service. Every time I go there, you’re the only worker who seems to give generous portions. I love you man.
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Michelle Fong Jana Quan wait this reminds me of when we went after rsf and the guy working there was rly cute
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1805. My girlfriend has terrible taste in music. She sometimes make me listen to it and I just say stuff like "yeah it is great." Half of the singers can't even sing. However, every time she overhears my music, she shits on it saying I have no taste in music. I wasn't even trying to show you my playlist... you just walked in or see my playlist on my phone and then say shit about it. I don't say anything about your playlist despite how terrible it is. I'm not trying to compete with you on who has better taste here. I just want to mind my own business and listen to my own music while working.
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1804. It’s 2:22 (2/21) in the RSF. I just got called out in the women’s locker room for not sorting my trash correctly and tossing food in the bottle/can bin. Hey lady, please don’t judge me. You’re totally right! I only do that here because our janitors dump EVERYTHING in that gray bin they shuttle around, so there’s no point.
But since you care, you should probably complain to the admins of rec & sports - though I have a feeling they know and don’t care. 🤷🏻♀️
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1803. There's this girl I know who is into me. She really is. She's the second person I've ever met who I can say with certainty that wants me. In fact, she's one of the best things that has happened to me in my entire life. There's one thing though. Every time I talk with her, I'm basically navigating a minefield. I'm deathly afraid of creeping her out so much to the point that I always have trouble saying anything detailed about how I feel. I try my best to make her feel co...
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1802. I had a dream about you. It was nice; we were just hanging out like we used to. It's been 6 years actually, now that I think about it.
I guess with the recent trauma I've gone through in my life, I grew nostalgic for the past.
I'm finishing up my time at my uni, and I know that you recently transferred to Berkeley, and I just hope you're thriving, and I hope you're happy. Gods, this is dramatic. Knowing you, you'd probably be really uncomfortable right now. 😂Well, I g...
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Yesterday at 9:30 AM ·
1801. With some many international asian girls wearing designer brands such as off-white, GGDB, Gucci, or Supreme it makes me so hot whenever I see a caucasian girl wearing such brands. Makes my pussy wet af when I see a little white girl rocking Gucci Aces and off-white Ts. Makes me want to scissor with them on the spot.
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1800. I spent some 8-ish hours on this week’s 61A homework, and I’m exhilirated when I finally finished it. Many people breezed thru this one, so once again I know I’m stupid - but who cares, I finished the homework on time, and I can’t be happier about it. Being stupid in this school is tough, but even stupid people like me should have the right to feel happy(at least occasionally). But honestly though... The hardest part about being stupid is trying to hide it. The fear that my friends will stop hanging out with me once they find out I’m stupid haunts me every day. Sometimes I really wish I could be like the smart kids and stop feeling like subhuman around them. Anyway, subhumans are human-like and at least partially valuable. I guess being partially valuable is better than being Nothing At All.
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Yersultan Sapar Please join CSM - Computer Science Mentors at UC Berkeley if you need help. Most of us were in this position and we know how it feels. We are here to support.
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Richard Li One of my most favorite people in all of history is Charles Darwin. Why? Because the dude failed through BOTH med school and theology school, during which his professors claimed he was terribly 'average' compared to his peers.....
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Confessions from UC Berkeley
February 28 at 9:30 PM ·
1799. My roommate is a double major in CS and Econ and has a 3.97 and he says he's not a nerd. What a liar.
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Jim Xu Garima Raheja Makena Schwinn Claire Dubin Nandika Donthi this post is undoubtedly, irrevocably, absolutely referring to our favorite "ecs" major: Courtney 🅱️rousseau
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Qasim Iqbal Sha Mu this is basically me. But I don't have the GPA. Or the double major in econ... I'm just happy I'm cs
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February 28 at 8:00 PM ·
1798. Alright, so I’m not even a Haas major, nor have I ever been pre-Haas, but I just wanted to say that the review system seems like bullshit. Not to say people in Greek life don’t deserve to get into Haas, but does anyone else find it a little alarming that a few sororities have had either 100% or almost 100% acceptance into Haas? When Haas has an overall acceptance rate of 33%, I just feel like something’s off here, especially when consulting clubs and other business orgs seem to have really low acceptance rates.
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Nimish Saxena Sidrah Siddiqui any thoughts on this matter? I'd love to hear your thoughts if you have any
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Shannon Balan If this is true we’re STORMING the frats
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February 28 at 6:30 PM ·
1797. It makes me so sad when people are rude to professors/GSIs. I understand if an individual educator is callous/racist/sadistic and you respond accordingly, but talking over people, obviously watching Youtube during discussion, making fun of a GSI's accent, etc. does not make you 'cool', it just looks like you have no class and no respect for those who are simply trying to help you. Shout-out to Prof Terry Buehler, btw, I'm really enjoying/understanding the lectures and I didn't even take physics in high school.
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Allison O'Brien Susana Torres OH I KNOW THEYRE NOT COMING AFTER MY BOY TERRY. He does so much for the physics department 😢
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February 28 at 5:00 PM ·
1796. Okay, gal here. So I’ve been in an open relationship for the last month or so and at first I was really excited about it, especially after being in monogamous relationships for the last 3 years. I was excited to flirt and have that moment of sexual tension with a stranger and have some nice, consensual, casual sex. But boy has the table turned.
Not only have 3/4 people I’ve hooked up with been minute men and left me immensely dissatisfied, but only one has even offered,...
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Marcela Cortes Give up on men, they suck
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Emily Xu Cherry Chan Kevin Ji Varun Iyer gotta develop the female 6th sense when you can tell whether or not a guy can put it down in bed
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February 28 at 3:30 PM ·
1795. Looking for Berkeley girls on Tinder (as a girl) is a nightmare. Ladies.. if you’re never actually dressing “fem” then please don’t fill your profile with fem pics. Are there actually no fem girls in Berkeley who like fem girls? 😩
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Angel Hyrax Whisperer Najera What exactly is "fem" here?
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Krish Nayar Tess Werhane gotta love 💓 internalized homophobia 😫💦😤
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February 28 at 2:00 PM ·
1794. In my R5B class today, we were talking about our attitudes towards Valentine's Day, and this one boy said how it reminded him about his vow to never fall in love with a girl after being "bullied, abused and demonized" by every girl he ever had a crush on. I'm in a relationship so frankly I don't give a shit, but I just have to say that YOU brought all this shit upon yourself, and it's definitely easier for YOU to come to terms with dying alone than to keep looking for an SO. Good luck, and I hope you don't whine as much next Valentine's Day.
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Ishaan Srivastava >"frankly I don't give a shit"
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Jonathon Li "I hope you don't whine".... proceeds to whine on social media for thousands to see
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February 28 at 12:30 PM ·
1793. I need some advice and I don't know where to go. So here it is:
My boyfriend and I are both freshmen. We met here at Cal. At first, I thought he was the nicest, most intelligent, caring guy I'd ever met. Then, as time went on, his true colors started to show. We're both Asian and culturally, as I have noticed, many Asians can be quite colorists. I don't mean to offend anyone by saying this, but a lot of my Asian friends and I have noticed that our parents share anti-bla...
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Sarah Harris
Sarah Harris Get out of there. Racism is not an incompatibility, it's a deal breaker.
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February 28 at 11:00 AM ·
1792. I struggle a lot as a young, single GSI teaching upper division undergraduate classes when it comes to having crushes! Our first and foremost job is to be as helpful to students as possible, but the reality is that a majority of our "free time" is spent with undergraduates (when we teach sections). There's a few cases in my department where grad students have dated undergraduates, and there's not a strong departmental norm against it...but I'd also hate to ask an ex-stu...
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Kara Poon You sound like a kind and caring person. I’m sure you can do it gracefully, and will learn and apologize if you mess up.
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Alexandra Scampini Just go for it yes they will trust you so just don’t abuse that trust like any other good person would do. You’re not their parent or something you are allowed to have fun too
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February 28 at 9:30 AM ·
1791. Theres this one guy who works at Crossroads and he is hot AF. He always looks tired as fuck but he always greets every single Croaders with kindness. He deserves a hot gf and scholarship from Carol.
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Annie Tang Yichen Sun tbt to when u were cal dining u deserve a scholarship from Carol 😤
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February 28 at 8:00 AM ·
1790. Listen up all you fuckers I live in Martinez and there happens to be a little courtyard in the middle over the past few weeks I have noticed a refrigerators worth amount of food piling up on the concrete path as well as along the sides. I am currently forced to walk by your three splattered eggs, onions, pomegranates and other items that are smelling up the whole damn courtyard. Why the fuck can’t you just through your damn produce into the trash. I understand dumping l...
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Yvonne Sun Justine Kim lol
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February 27 at 9:30 PM ·
1789. As I was scrolling through my usual porn feed on tumblr, I saw a familiar face who I immediately recognized as one of the boys from the rowing team. Full disclosure, had an unashamed wank and felt a previously unknown sense of Cal pride. Go out there and rep the colors laddie. besides, everyone loves a good nude leak. #gobears
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Ashwinee Panda Spencer Mowdy Hill either you're just now posting confessions from December, Tumblr is bad at finding porn, or OP is just posting a fantasy they had https://www.washingtonpost.com/.../tumblrs-nudity.../...
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Briana Zhang "previously unknown sense of Cal pride" LMFAO
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February 27 at 8:00 PM ·
1788. I’m in Moffitt taking a nap in the napping room and this big guy comes next to me and takes the pod next to mine (ok it’s one of those metal thingys not the actual pods that you can adjust and play music from). At first he lies down and seems to go to sleep but then soon after he takes his shoes off. No big deal you might think, but dude, just a few seconds later I could smell his feet and it was so gross. The area around me smelled like rotten milk. This guy has to be ...
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Josh Weinstein
Josh Weinstein Hey OP, please be considerate of this student and the struggles he might be going through. EECS projects require immense amounts of time and devotion, which can even rob students of the freedom to bathe and shower. The stench of his feet comes from his exhaustion and fatigue from coding, not narcissism or rudeness.
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David Chen Jai ppl out here accusing OP of being inconsiderate like what? How hard is it to shower once in a while lmao
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February 27 at 6:30 PM ·
1787. So I have the hugest crush on my ace friend and nothing makes me happier than the idea of watching crappy sitcoms while eating pizza or cuddling in a toasty blanket with them on a rainy day while reading books and drinking hot cocoa.
I know that being aromantic and asexual are distinct, and maybe they'd be down for beer and boardgames in our jammies but I worry that as I am not ace myself, I don't know what I would do about the fact that in top of being a hopeless romantic I'm still a horny twenty-something and this is the prime time I have for participating in the good ol' hookup.
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Laura Mackenzie
Laura Mackenzie That’s every ace’s fear as well. We’re afraid our partners, in the height of romance, will break it off for sex
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Mykaela Barnes come see our monologues and i will tell you all about ace relationships (Kara Lenci)
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February 27 at 5:00 PM ·
1786. lmao @these amateur kids who just happen to own a DSLR charging ~$90 an hour for their time: tha'ts a full time valuation of their time of $188,640 annual salary even factoring in vacation/weekend time working 40 hours a week like the fuck LOL, did your parents never teach you humility or what
to be fair its probably just the market price, so LMFAO WHAT THE FUCK LOL @anyone who fucking thinks that these are reasonable prices to be paying for people who've probably done 20 minutes of googling if that "how to take grad photos" and then try to rob you at literally 2x the equivalent hourly pay of an engineer or compsci or business major
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Devan Mathur
Devan Mathur pretty sure the whole point IS that you can't be literally taking photographs 40 hours a week. Plus you're forgetting all the editing work, which can take even longer.
For someone who wants to be a smartass you really didn't think this through huh
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Kevin Chang you try photography and then let us know how much you wanna be paid smh
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February 27 at 3:30 PM ·
1785. I started saying "I love you" to people I know whenever I see them on campus and it's amazing. It feels great, makes my day, and best of all, it's priceless seeing the looks on my ex's face
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Myra Memon damn did you date the whole freaking school OP
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Jessica Wang Aria Frangos this is chaotic and I think I respect them but I think I’m a little afraid too
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February 27 at 2:00 PM ·
1784. CW: Death of a student
I thought I saw you on campus today walking up the steps of MLK. But it hit me a second later that you are not actually here on this earth anymore. When you passed in October, I struggled to comprehend what was happening simply because I always thought I would be able to reach out to you and tell you how much I liked you the next time that I saw you.
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Terry Park
Terry Park To OP (if you ever read this):
We’re here to talk about what happened—feel free to reach out any time
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Jun Zhou 💞💞💞 Thank you for keeping him in your heart and mind, but don’t let yourself chase a specter. Dont let yourself haunt, but give yourself time to heal, bloom, then grow
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February 27 at 12:30 PM ·
1783. (WHOLESOME WEDNESDAY)
A. I mean this platonically, but Sumati Wadhwa's smile makes everyone around her 10x happier
B. Ishan Sharma is one of the cutest, most professional, and nicest guys I've met at Cal. I was in his Data 8 class and literally, he was working a full time job and still pulled an amazing grade in this class. I don't even know how. I wish I could ask him out but I don't even think he knows I exist. Is he dating someone?...
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Anna Hwang Anna Hwang ur the only other anna hwang I know