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In the face of an attack you come across as indifferent, which minimises possible damage to you, and avoids having to give the response that the other person is hoping to provoke You never over-dramatise things and prefer to wait until the storm passes. Insults and verbal attacks are like water off a duck's back. You like to get things into perspective, quite often making excuses for the person who is being aggressive and placing yourself above any pointless conflict. Where there's trouble you assume a parental role... but do you sometimes turn a blind eye? Watch out – your behaviour might mean you avoid getting into fights, but it has its own risks: it can make you invisible and allow others to trample on you. Are you sure that you are not adopting this attitude to avoid having to stand up for yourself? You can't always be on the losing side. Say what you think when necessary... Try not to feel guilty if you have to put someone in their place. Stand your ground. This way you'll be able to find the best response to any attack that's levelled at you.