SelectableLazyColumn perf/code review

[rock3r]

The SelectableLazyColumn is a foundational component that will be used everywhere. As such, we need to make it work as well as it possibly can. This issue is to track the need to do a thorough code and perf review of the component, fixing any issues we find.

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Known concerns

• allKeys: List<Key> and keyToIndex: Map<Int, Key> shouldn't exist at all, since the API related to it causes O(n) selection change operations, where they should be O(1)
• SelectedKeys map can contain now-invalid keys (e.g., if the data changes or selected items are removed)
• SelectableLazyColumn and Tree keybindings are broken #237
• Deselecting items with the keyboard is not working in multi-select mode

[Walingar]

Also, there is a usecase that should be taken into account:

Imagine we have a textfield and lazy column where elements can be selected (e.g. Search Everywhere or Git Branches popup)
I want to propagate arrowDown/arrowUp presses to lazy list. So that when TextField is focused and arrowDown is pressed, lazy list become focused and arrowDown is handled by lazy list.

Now events handling is incapsulated in SelectableLazyColumn, so supporting this scenario is quite difficult

[rock3r]

Related: #470